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Are you thinking about separating from your spouse and wondering if you are making the right decision? Or are you just having problems in your marriage and are you wondering what to do? Perhaps you have already separated and you are wondering how to effectively co-parent the kids?

Whatever your need, we’ve got you covered. Below is a list of the books and resources that we’ve compiled over the years to help you through this difficult process.

And assume that all of these links are affiliate links, meaning that we will receive a small commission if you purchase through these links. But don’t worry, it won’t cost you anything extra.


Having Problems in Your Marriage?

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman

Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love by John Gottman

The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts by Gary Chapman

Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life by Henry Cloud

Your Brain on Love by Stan Tatkin


Should You Stay or Go?

Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship by Mira Kirshenbaum

This is Me Letting You Go by Heidi Priebe

F It… Get a Divorce by Steven Kane


How to Effectively Co-Parent

Mom’s House, Dad’s House: Making two homes for your child by Isolina Ricci

FAYR Co-Parenting App

Don’t Alienate the Kids! Raising Resilient Children While Avoiding High Conflict Divorce by Bill Eddy


What to Do if your Spouse is “High-Conflict” or Has a Personality Disorder?

Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder by Bill Eddy

Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder by Paul Mason and Randi Kreger


Moving On… How and When to Start Dating Again

How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk by John Van App

Boundaries in Dating: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Relationships by Henry Cloud

Personal Growth

Focus!: Drop the Law of Attraction. Slay Your Goals. The PROVEN guide to huge success, a powerful attitude and profound love by David Essel